Friday, September 23, 2016

Trains, trials, tears, and some hopeful news

Hello! Can you send this to all the normal
peeps? I don't have my iPad so things are weird. This week was crazy and ALL OVER THE PLACE. So I'll give you the highlights instead of the day by day play by play. Because some of the days were fairly rough and not much exciting things happened. [Emma's back was causing very significant problems last week making it hard for her to leave the house many days - see the bottom for additional details] Konaha eki (train station): we went with the elders in another epic train trip to see less actives that love way far out. We got off the train and GREEN OVERLOAD. Rice paddies for dayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyz. It was beautiful. And we just got to spend all day wandering around in this beautiful scenery looking for 3 less actives houses. We found all 3 (unheard of) and talked to 2 (even more unheard of). Also, as we walked though the mixture of bamboo forest and rice paddies we found The World's Largest Spiders. Larger than my hand. Fortunately they didn't seem in the mood to attack.
Eikaiwa: during the conversation portion I was talking to 2 high school girls and a college aged boy and I taught them tongue twisters! It was hilarious. To get back at me they taught me a Japanese one: Namamugi namagome nama tamago. Then they were laughing at me. It was a good time. Way fun. The Gap: there's a Gap in the shopping area towards the edge of our area. We've been dendoing a lot in the shopping area because it's nicer on my back and we can still get out and talk to people. We've come good friends with a lot of store workers. So we went to the Gap (where all the clothes were 50% off) and were wandering around looking at all the American style cloths. And the worker started chatting with us. Turns out she loves English and is going to Australia soon to study English. She was WAY interested in Eikaiwa. It was way cool to meet her. And she's works all day everyday so shop dedno was the only was we could ever meet her.
Shion (how you say Zion in Japanese): she's a cute high school girl we meet 2 weeks ago in the park. We had lunch with her!! At McDonald's (which is a class institution in Japan). We chatted and religious things came up. But it was casual. At the end we shared "I am a child of God" from the new meet the Mormons. And she LOVED IT. She asked for a copy of it. Happy day. North Korean spies: we just got word that one of our creepier English class students might in actuality be a North Korean spy.


Happy scientist: So. We randomly visited a less-active 
this week whose family are pretty hardcore Happy Scientists. Which means they 
believe that all religions are true. 

We said hello at their genkan [traditional Japanese entry
 way] and they happily invited us in,
 sat us down, handed us chopsticks,
 and shoved a bowl a freshly cut raw
 fish in front us, commanding us to
 eat. We were very confused but
 happily partook. The less-actives
 nonmember son was happy to talk to
 us, and actually invited us to go 
to a Happy Science activity with him.
 We politely declined. Meanwhile the
 mom of the household wandered in and out of the 
conversation, and at one point returned with 
someone's newborn baby. Never did receive clarification
 about whose baby it was. Anyways, we shared a video about Jesus, which led to a 
discussion about why American bombed Japan if America is a Christian country.  
We didn't know, so we testified of how Christ can help us overcome our weaknesses, 
heal, and forgive. We both left this encounter very confused, honestly we still 
aren't sure what happened. (My lovely comp wrote this for me).

It was a strange week. We'll see what next week brings. Love love love, ベアマン姉妹 Sent from my iPad

[In a separate email from Emma] 

9/19


Hey fambam,
Heard you got a call from President A. 😬 [President A is our Stake President, or
local church leader over the area where we live] Hopefully it wasn't too  shocking? Surprising? I was trying to keep you informed. But you know, not be terribly depressing. [President A called me at Evan's soccer game and told me Emma's back is doing badly, and she might have to come home early from Japan to get treatment for it] So yeah. The first part of this week was a train wreck. Not much dedno. Having my back hurt all day everyday had gotten to be tiring. Lots of feeling REALLY UNBEARABLY SAD and sleeping (because I hadn't been sleeping at night). And stretching. It was quite pitiful now that I look back on it. Well, we had interviews with Kaicho and Shimai [Mission President and his wife] on Thursday. Well timed? Ill timed? Who knows. Probs well timed. I was the first one to go in and talk to him. Well, I figured we'd talk about going home. And we did. There was a lot of crying on my part. And a lot of speaking God's word on his part. And we decided to take a week and pray to know what God's plan is. Also, to pray for a huge miracle. He gave me a blessing. In it he talked about both options equally. He blessed me to be healed but there wasn't a clear time frame set for that... But he also blessed me not to feel depressed and sad and since then, I haven't felt overwhelmingly sad. So yeah, at this point, who knows. I talked to Shimai last [Mission President's wife]. She just listened. And comforted. Man, they're amazing. After interviews I felt way better. A lot lighter. I think I was really stressed thinking about talking about going home. My back hurt less and so did my heart. Although this whole going home business has me STRESSED but a different stressed because I want to make the right decision. I want to  have hope I'll be healed but like if that's not God's plan I don't know what to think. In the blessing, God said He would grant me the righteous desires of my heart and my desires are to stay but like what if that's not righteous. Or the most righteous option. You know? I don't know. Anywho, after interviews I felt a LOT BETTER. Kaicho called me on Saturday which was a little startling. He told me he had called President A and that Pres A was calling you. *minor freak out because that means things are getting serious.* Kaicho and Shimai, Sister M and I all fasted yesterday to see a big miracle and to get an answer. And I hear your fasting (fasted?) today with a bunch of people. [Fasting is going without food for two meals and praying for a special purpose] At the end of my fast, I asked an elder to give me a blessing of council. Man, I got counseled. God told me He has a plan for me. And His plan is perfect. . .So I'm basically here in Japan not really knowing what to do. I know what I want. But I don't know if that aligns with what God wants. But I'm still praying for a big miracle. Thanks for fasting for me (I'm grateful for everyone else fasting for me too). I cried tonight when I realized how many people loved me enough to fast for me. [Dana and I are very grateful to all who fasted with us, and we cried too grateful for all the love and support. Thank you everyone!] I love you guys. Also, feel free to share this email with more people. Or put it on the blog. Or not put it on the blog. Either way really. I'm just sending it to you guys first. And I know everything will work out the way it's supposed to.
Love love love Emma
9/23
President A,
I am sorry it has taken me a while to get back to you but Sister Bearman went in to another doctor today to see if she could get some relief and I wanted to know the results of that visit before calling you. This was a Doctor here in Fukuoka which is about 2-3 hours away from where she is currently
living that she went to before she was transferred to Kumamoto.
Sister Bearman was very upbeat and happy today as the doctor told her that she was not as bad as she was the first time that she came in for treatment and that he thought after another visit (Next Thursday) that she would be back to where she was before she left  Fukuoka.
This is great news. We will be praying that the doctor is right and that Sister Bearman will not need to return home. Thanks for your prayers and fasting. The power of the fast is real.
Pres. E [Emma's mission president]

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